Have you ever been told that you were restless? That you never settled? Have you ever experienced the rolling eyes of the people making these remarks as if staying in the question, being on the move and following your Joy would be some sort of a capital crime? Have you ever felt that you were ‘almost there’ while searching high and below for who you really are? Have you ever decided for one passion only to find something else to be more passionate about in the next moment? Have you always known that there’s a world ‘out there’ that waited to be discovered with the amazement and curiosity of a child? Have you ever felt that no label, etiquette or definition was large enough, glamorous enough, honest enough to describe you? Have you ever felt like breaking the barriers, smashing down walls and stand wildly on your back stallion feet when ‘they’ (the others) tried to convince you that ‘that’s the way life goes’? Have you ever felt sick at the closed doors and the unworthy feeling of being excluded from a spiritual journey just because others considered you not being spiritual enough?
Raise your hand if you answered ‘yes’ to at least one of these questions.
How It All Started…
My name is Selena Ardelean. Born in Romania, I emigrated to Belgium to follow my husband in 2004. Wife, mother of three young boys (of a cat and a dog as well), entrepreneur, seasoned certified leadership and culture shock coach, intuitive SHINE coach, motivational speaker, teacher, trainer, best-selling author, igniter of sparkles, enhancer of light, healer, crystal healer, dragon owner, Love Method assistant, Access Consciousness Bars facilitator and so much more… I know today that I am an infinite being living in an infinite world of possibilities! And this makes me infinitely happy! How can it get better than this? I’ve been on a quest of myself my whole life. For about 30 years I believed that one needed to work hard in order to reach there where ‘s/he was supposed to be; that I needed to work harder than anybody else to prove the world I was worthy of it; that the harder the road got, the more significant the results were; that one needed to have goals in life and go for them, clench the teeth and do whatever was needed to be done. Life was a battle, I’d better win at it! It was the only way I knew how to function. I would tick goals off my list, I would burn myself down in the process, I would not let go and I almost never felt happy. I’ve been working ‘on’ myself, never fully embracing myself. I kept missing… myself. I now follow Joy across worlds. I empower people to walk in confidence towards their true self, aware-able-aligned. I embrace my energetic healer abilities. I welcome my love for crystals and their delicate, yet powerful magic. I travel to the Spirit world in shamanic trance journeys. I partner with my healing dragon. I teach, train and coach. I love the shine in people. I write books, I paint, I run, I am… and I receive.
All of Life comes to me with Ease, Joy and Glory!®
A day in the life of Selena Ardelean
Interview by Bruzz